Family Guides

Practical Help for the Hardest Conversation

Free guides for families dealing with a loved one's addiction — what to actually say, how to handle denial, and what to do when the first attempt doesn't work.

How to Talk to a Family Member About Their Drinking
Worried the conversation will end in a fight? Here's how to bring it up in a way they can actually hear.
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What to Say When They Won't Admit They Have a Problem
Denial is the first wall most families hit. Here's how to respond without it turning into a standoff.
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My Son or Daughter Won't Go to Rehab — What Now?
You brought it up. They said no. Here's what to actually do next.
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How to Talk to Your Parent About Their Drinking
It feels like it's not your place to say anything. Here's how to have the conversation without crossing a line.
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